how do I feel being away from family

"You lucky guy", that's what most of my freinds and colleages say knowing I am away from family for a long time now. Its been two months since I am away from my family. This is the longest duration in my 6 or 7 years to be marriage life. Life without family is for sure different. While I really miss them being away there are few things I liked abt that in the begning ...
( I am writing as though many are reading my blogs. Well, if you are reader out there in some remote world and in the same boat of living away from family for the first time then you can stay a bit and read through.)

My routine is off. I go to bed late, very late every night after a mid night cooking and netflix movie watch. How do body react to that ... you want to know, body treats with you a tight constipation!. jeesus christ..

I am home alone. I felt a a bit relaxed abt this in the begning. I can dress like I want.. (just need to make sure I pass the windows fast if curtains are up) or have an open restroom with laptop. That TV remote has no competition.. but after some time it sucks. This quietness becomes very less interesting.

On weekends its a very late out of bed and late out of sofa and out of home experience. I miss there my sweet heart wife's bed coffee. thanjvur degree coffee sometimes. I would say that's a million dollar worth now. You men out there, if your wife gives you a morning bed coffee say "Thank you very much dear" or "Thank you very much dear and by the way you look very beautiful today".

And main thing a man misses while wife away is that warm closeness and effect ion. Its the kissing, hugging,...men like me need this all the time to live good and calm. Though I miss it, I can be thank full for one reason. I started fantasizing and dreaming about my wife ...dreams like walking in the park with holding hands, two black images with a glaring moon... when is the last time a man fantasised or dreamed about his wife like that?


I know the separation firmly made me realize that family time does not keep me away from any rewards and does not stop me from making that big dream or plan I may have. Time well spend with family is precious.

May be every couple need a break to realize the how significant the significant other is.

Cant wait more to join my two sweeties, love you guys.